I had exactly the same bub when I had children living with me. Lost £60 and they couldn't afford to give me that much themselves while in education so I was paying for more people than me on less money. And one children wouldn't have helped me in the tiniest way and the other did walk the dog though but neither could be described as caring for me so I don't understand the logic. I'm better off now, paying the under occupancy charge but having no one here.